VALENTINE'S DAY @ DAMORY Colleges, IBADAN.

Smiling...my proprietress chum, Mrs Mary Iyeritufu Afolabi made confident she "dragged" me your entire means from Ota all the way down to Ibadan the day gone by. It became terrific chatting with those worthy souls the day prior to this. You can even read from this....

Intercourse Coaching: MY Beneficial Inner most Facet...

Personal way solely for you, no intrusion, no outsider. It is not simplest your vagina or penis it is your exclusive facet, your thigh, lips, buttocks, armpit, higher arm, shoulder, neck also are your non-public aspect, your invaluable assets. Intended for you, to be obvious via you simply.

Truly golden wristwatches will not be displayed at the surface at Oshodi marketplace. You cannot locate a hundred carat gold at the flooring at Idumota, Lagos whereas determined agents scream for customers on the right in their lungs! No! That is neatly enclosed in a pitcher and you'll't contact if you're now not shopping for and whilst you purchase, you pay lots as it isn't very widely wide-spread, it's not in all places, it isn't inexpensive! teenage party

Very good destinies should not familiar, don't seem to be in every single place should not inexpensive! You may have a superb future sooner than you, as a result, you, won't be able to let your self to be touched and tampered with.

You package deal your self with honour and dignity. There's a manner you communicate, stroll and behave, males could be scared to the touch you, each person who dares it dares hearth and your esteem of their eyes is top!

I do not forget a fellow workforce mistakenly stepped on me whilst I used to be nevertheless unmarried and desired to lend a hand fresh my leg, I pulled my leg off and informed him guys do not contact my leg. He became flabbergasted. He gave a re-evaluation and walked away. It is how a few women fall into intercourse. It starts offevolved as innocently as cleansing legs then it progresses into whatever else!

Heading off PRE-MARITAL Intercourse

Don't permit any person see your personal component, that's sacred, holy, natural and for a pretty good destiny function.

Do not enable any boy/woman pass on the point of your lips or contact it.
Do not permit any boy placed his hand on your breast or hip pocket.
Do not let any woman contact your thigh or groin.
Do not enable any female go on the brink of your lips.
Continuously take a seat together with your laps closed in combination as a lady. Prevent throwing your laps extensive aside.
Don't shape the behavior of journeying the alternative intercourse.
Don't sit down at the contrary intercourse's laps.
Don't hug/include the other intercourse.
Cease donning skimpy garments round, it's miles hazardous.
Stay clear of carrying bum shorts, tank tops, tubes, spaghetti past your bed room.
Prevent gazing pornography.
Do not enable related females (lesbians) or identical boys (homosexual) play together with your confidential half.
Cease begging boys/males for check. Be contented with anything your mum and dad offer you.

Keeping off SEXUAL ABUSE AS A lady

Don't undress earlier your dad.
Do not permit your daddy contact your confidential edge, buttocks or breast.
Do not undress until now your brothers, cousins, uncles or any contrary intercourse.
Do not enable your siblings, cousins, uncles, male lecturers contact your delicate physique ingredients.
If you're touched inappropriately, scream, circulate away and sidestep the man up to you possibly can.
While you're pressurized for intercourse,do not preserve quiet. Tell your discern, pastor's spouse, proprietress or any depended on girl that may permit you to intrude within the rely.
Don't remain on my own at the hours of darkness with any contrary intercourse.

Heading off SEXUAL ABUSE AS A BOY

Don't get dressed/undress until now your sibling, cousins, aunt or mom.
Do not enable anybody contact your penis, scrotum, thigh or buttocks.
Do not permit any female play together with your penis or lips.
In the event that your aunt, trainer, cousin or siblings contact you inappropriately, shout and circulate faraway from the man.
Do not permit fellow boys play together with your penis.
Refuse to kiss everyone forcing your lips down on theirs. Refuse to to the touch their breasts or contact their inner most areas.

CAN An adolescent DATE?

No, you cannot. Until eventually you realize precisely what you desire out of existence, that you may guard your self, pay all of your fees, look after a spouse and a child, feed your self and youngsters, you don't have any trade courting the alternative intercourse. The point of courting is to search out a lifestyles accomplice, are you prepared to get married?

The chance Of stripling Courting

Instructional distraction
Low self worth
Sexual rigidity
Sexual experimentation
Premarital intercourse
Low, battered, shattered self worth

Averting DATE RAPE

No courting.
No ingesting juice, or whatever thing provided by means of the other intercourse. A few beverages are drugged. Quite a lot of females have misplaced their virginity although on date.
Stay clear of skimpy, physique revealing outfits. Males are moved by way of sight. Once you flip them on and also you say NO once they ask for intercourse they are going to rape you!
No assembly/jogging with the alternative intercourse in the dead of night.
No partying/clubbing.

WHY That you need to Keep OFF Intercourse AND Preserve YOUR VIRGINITY

You could have a resounding self confidence.
You might be centred to your experiences and excel.
You do not have a earlier that allows you to hang-out you all the time.
You preclude undesirable being pregnant.
You avert soul tie.
You steer clear of generational curses.
You keep demonic ownership.
You'll fulfil your future.
You stay away from STDs.
You keep away from discomfort, disgrace and remorse.
Your significant other will honour you in long term.
God is pleased with you.
A few might also say, STDs might be steer clear off using condoms and being pregnant with domestic making plans tablets...hmmm...I pity your long run!

Hazards OF TAKING Drugs To circumvent Being pregnant

Breast most cancers
Cervical melanoma
Acute zits/epidermis concern
Hormonal imbalance
Pre-mature growing older
Melancholy, paranoia, psychosis, neurosis
Useless weight profit/loss
Probability of ectopic being pregnant amongst others
Abstinence from intercourse is the ideal.

Know who you are. You are not an ordinary person. You have a great future ahead of you. The devil knows this and will do anything to abort it. Premarital intercourse is one of the numerous tools he uses. You won't fall for it. I love you plenty. God bless you. Cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2018.